I recently visited Tala Game Reserve, in KwaZulu-Natal, with my mother.

We spent a few hours driving around looking for game, but were disappointed in that we saw almost nothing.

We eventually found our way to the bird hide overlooking a small dam, with rolling hills beyond.

We set out our camping chairs on the open deck and just sat quietly, enjoying the view.

It was not long before we realised that everywhere we looked there was game to be seen.

Waterfowl had settled back on the water, hippos in the dam were popping their heads up to grunt and snort, birds of prey were circling overhead, monkeys were playing in the huge fig tree on the other side of the dam, ostrich, kudu, impala and wildebeest could be seen on the hills and rhino were grazing in the distance.

The lesson I was reminded of is that desire often creates paradoxical effects:

The more you want something, the more you chase after it, the more it eludes you.

Henry Thoreau said: “Happiness is like a butterfly:

the more you chase it, the more it will elude you; but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.”